Having been a lesbian for many years, I have seen some things that some straight women may not notice as much as we do. For instance, the male obsession with lesbian women.

I had my first girlfriend in high school. We tried to keep it a secret and only tell our closest friends, but as expected, by the end of the week, the entire school knew. I didn't really care either. I was actually quite surprised how cool about it everyone was. None of my guy friends had any problem with it, and my girl friends sort of just, silently accepted it. They didn't like me any less, but they didn't mention it either.

It was in high school that I first came across the phenomenon of the male obsession with lesbians. Before I "came out," guys would hit on me and ask me out (most of the time I accepted the offer to maintain my cover) on pretty consistent basis, but it wasn't that much. I am not afraid to say that I was (and still am, I hope lol) a pretty girl. But after it was known that I was a lesbian, the amount of guys that hit on me and asked me out had doubled, at the very least.

I could not figure it out. Why would they try to get with me when they know I only like being with girls?

It didn't take long to figure it out though. They thought if they could get with me, they could get with me and my girlfriend, whoever she may be at the time.

Typical.

For close 10 years I've been fighting men off of me and my girlfriends. Taylor and I can't go out to the bar without getting at least one request for a threesome. I always say the same thing to these guys, "I like girls. Where did you get the idea that we would fuck you?" or something along those lines. They never have an answer. I don't even know why we have to point it out. Shouldn't it be common sense? Why do most men forget that lesbian means we don't have sex with men, and think that lesbian is just another word for bi-sexual? It blows my mind.

Last night, Taylor and I heard an excuse that we haven't heard before. We almost accepted the offer based purely on the fact that the guy was so quick and creative with this excuse. When we told him that we don't fuck men, he doesn't miss a beat and responds with...

"Then why don't you both just give me a blowjob? It aint sex. You won't be fuckin' a man."

I was impressed, but we politely denied his offer.

He was right though. Technically a blowjob isn't sex. The problem is, I've given a few blowjobs before, mainly during the phases I would go through in my late teens where I tried to convince myself I was straight so my parents would accept me. I'd meet up with a guy, go out for dinner, go back to his place, and start fooling around. I'd tell myself to fuck him, and to like it. I'd take his pants off, suck his dick a little bit, then stop and run out of the house. To be completely honest, I hate cocks. They gross me out a little. They are ugly. A vagina, on the other hand... I won't get in to that.

We ended the night without any males taking part in the fun, and unlike my teen years, I am absolutely sure that is the way I like it.

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